What a great concept!

I grew up with the idea of giving and contributing: the offering at Sunday School and church, collections for missions and food pantries, and birthday/holiday gifts.

With your idea of "giving suggesting losing" I am reminded of trying to teach my oldest son to shop for gifts. We would put something in the cart and he would utter that it was unfair that he had to give it away. I wish I had had this concept of sharing, not giving, when he was younger.